I Tried to Build a Chore Tracker. It Became Something Else.
I didn't need a shorter list. I needed to stop seeing all of it at once.
Field notes from home
Modern family life, mental load, AI, and trying to build useful things without turning home into a productivity contest.
What happens when you take RevOps instincts, a break from work, two young kids, and a bunch of AI experiments into the family operating system.
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Working topics from the messy middle. These are in progress, not promises carved into stone.I didn't need a shorter list. I needed to stop seeing all of it at once.
A practical, slightly ridiculous look at how I use three AI tools differently: Bob / ChatGPT for daily life and thinking, Claude for writing and second opinions, and Codex for building. This is not a tool review. It is about how AI has become part of the texture of my actual days.
How I use AI for dinner planning, grocery lists, and the daily question of feeding everyone without making it a whole thing. AI is surprisingly helpful here — but the dream is for it to understand what is actually in the fridge, what my family will eat, and what kind of day we are having.
My five-year-old knows I talk to an AI named Bob. And Bob, in a weird but bounded way, knows a lot about him: his interests, his questions, his dinosaur/animal/rock obsessions, and the kinds of parenting moments I ask for help thinking through. This piece is about AI becoming part of the background texture of family life — useful, strange, and worth being thoughtful about.